Dana - I think you really just need to listen to your heart here. As for the dating thing I know that currently I'm just looking to go out and have fun. Make myself feel good and enjoy life. I'm not looking for the physcial side of it...because I'm simply not ready for that yet...but I know I will be at some point as this progresses and I continue to move on with my life.
So what are you looking to get out of dating? Are you really looking for a R or are you just looking to enjoy life again and meet new people?
As for the filing. Again, follow your heart. Will you regret being the one to file or will you look at it as though you made a stand for yourself and did what you wanted. Can you push him to do it? Can you tell him, look you started this and you will finish it and I want you to file by X date...you at least owe me that.
This is your ballgame now Dana, how do you want it to play out?
