I was thinking more about what you wrote, what I wrote and something HS wrote:
I hate to say it, but that really is up to you. If you have any concern that it's not what you want to do, I'd say don't do it. If it comes time that it is what you want, I think you'll definitely know it.
I was having this same discussion with someone else from this board offline and this is what I told him:
If you're asking the question about whether pulling the trigger on ending it is right or not, then it isn't right. The fact that you're asking that question at all indicates some level of doubt.
It's like HS said:
If it comes time that it is what you want, I think you'll definitely know it.
You'll know when you're ready.
I know it sounds trite, and to some extent a little like a circular argument, but I also think it's completely true.
Take care,
S_O_T_S aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface
I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall
