Frustrated and Saddened

[waw1978]

Sounds like you ended up getting to spend time with the W afterall. Maybe not with the outcomes you were hopingg for but try not to get discouraged. You both have a lot of things going through your mind.

As far as the compartmentalization of her life, you have a right to be wary. Needing space is one thing, but not wanting to show your spouse where you work is another. It does sound a little off, even to a WAW! I am not going to speculate on her reasoning but I do agree that you had reason to be concerned about it. I would try and it put it out of your mind for the time being as fretting about it will just drive you nuts. You have more important things to focus on

You def do not sound like a broken record. I think everyone on here is caught in some type of cycle but were all here to be sounding boards for each other and help when we can. I am pretty sure all my posts read the same too. But somewhere in the rut maybe we make a little progress. Take care.