A question: How about if the frequency of sex isn't wonderful? Still have the same opinion?
If there is one person in the mix who isn't happy, you've got a problem. A lot of HD guys on here would take wonderful sex twice a month, as opposed to crap sex twice a week.
So. You have to be the judge. I dunno. Meat said everything was great except the sex. That's where my comment came from. If the sex ain't great, neither is the R.
OTOH, I think there is one word for women who depend on men they are having sex with for financial support. OTOH, I think there is another equally bad connotation word for men who don't support their children or the work that their spouse does to raise them.
Given the absence of kids from the situation, I would much rather date a guy who was, for instance, living in a van working his *ss off to help migrant workers than one who had $$ banked but constantly b*tched and moaned about how much his job sucked. I find drive and initiative sexy in a man and sometimes that equals money and sometimes it doesn't.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. Mojo, you were referring to golddiggers and hookers, right? \:D
I wasn't referring to you because you have children that you care for and I assume you have some sort of equitable arrangement concerning housework load versus paid work load etc. I am including married women without children who have maids and basically spend their days having liposuction and lunch. I am inclined to be more lenient in my analysis of the situation if they are truly devoted to gardening, the arts or charitable causes. However, I would also have a certain respect for a woman who actually was a good-hearted pro and used the money to buy canvas and oils or feed the hungry children in her neighborhood.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Not to mention a woman who was a competent and honest pro who strived to give excellent service and a mindblowing experience and kept her equipment clean.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
Meat said everything was great except the sex. That's where my comment came from. If the sex ain't great, neither is the R.
The irony being sex can be great, but the R can suck. Aint no fair. LFL
Oh yes. BTDT. But, I have to admit Meat's sitch falls into sucketh land. It's not as if it's great when it does happen, so I'd have to concur with Corri. But, you get on a slippery slope here. In my sitch, it's usually really good but it doesn't happen as much as I'd like, or I have to drive things too much for my liking. Does that make the R "suck"? As LFL points out, you can f**k like bunnies and still have a bad R.
But, you get on a slippery slope here. In my sitch, it's usually really good but it doesn't happen as much as I'd like, or I have to drive things too much for my liking.
So... you are doing that whole projection thing, then. You have the sense of an ideal woman (a woman who drives things more so you don't have to), instead of dealing with what is. You don't like driving things... and that is within your control to change.
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Does that make the R "suck"? As LFL points out, you can f**k like bunnies and still have a bad R.
I guess.
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Is sex glue or icing?
I'd say sex is the indicator of how well your glue is holding up. And when things are satisfying to both people, in terms of quality and quantity, the glue tastes like icing.
