OTOH, I think there is one word for women who depend on men they are having sex with for financial support. OTOH, I think there is another equally bad connotation word for men who don't support their children or the work that their spouse does to raise them.
Given the absence of kids from the situation, I would much rather date a guy who was, for instance, living in a van working his *ss off to help migrant workers than one who had $$ banked but constantly b*tched and moaned about how much his job sucked. I find drive and initiative sexy in a man and sometimes that equals money and sometimes it doesn't.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
