So here it is she isn’t wearing her wedding ring. I haven’t mentioned a thing about it nor will I. My question is with technique, in GAL, 180 and the Last Resort should I be wearing my ring? Do I want to appear detached on the whole we are still married thing and I don’t want people to mistake me for a married person? Or should I continue to try and be the rock she can grab too and no matter how bad things get, I’m wearing mine because I made the commitment?
Also, I’ve never been a consistent wearer, due to activities, and it has never been an issue. So if I am wearing it one day to the next she wouldn’t think anything unless it was consistent.
I guess it really comes down to, while I’m GAL, doing a 180 and possible Last Resort which message do I send, “I’m here” or “Ya whatever babe?”
Your choice, but if you consider yourself married and still want to be married I'd wear the ring. In my mind, taking it off won't bring her back to you and it might piss her off or make her think you have given up, are moving on, or are just being mean. Wear it because you want to wear it, and don't think about it anymore.
Hope it helps, Nomopo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
