K- I understand what you're saying. I guess my thoughts right now are regarding if I should be the one to file. I feel I have and have to accept that this marriage is over. Therefore, for myself, I need to move forward. That doesn't mean dating right this instance, etc. but that means the marriage is over and I have a future that doesn't include him and I need to move towards that future. I don't think I will feel right dating as long as I am legally married. So, I start to wonder, if since the marriage is over anyway, why I can't get past myself and just be the one to file. I don't know why I'm hung up on that bit. Anyway, because I'm confused I know it is not a time to act... just thinking about it and my concerns.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
