Not that I'm not interested in what you had to say, along with your thought process, but I'm a little confused as to why you are still on this site and posting if you have called it quites and are finished DBing. Are you still trying to DB or are you done and can't quit this site.
I agree with your view of only doing something if there is a plan, not DB just to say you can handle the pain. However, I do think there are times when we hit dry spots and need others to give us reasons to fight on. Sometimes I have had to wait a day or two before I found my next step. When I am done I want to know I have done everything.
