Well if she is saying she has no desire to work on marriage, I would probably wait till the next one. I know it sucks, I asked my wife as their is one here in a couple weeks, she seemed to back away a little bit but her answer was she is not ready for that yet. So I shall wait till next time, at least it wasn't a flat out no.
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