So, I was talking with my sister today. We were discussing that although I haven't met anyone I would like to date, I know that my marriage is over and that is a next step for me, should the time and opportunity come. It could be months, who knows. But, we talked about the fact that I am still married. I don't want to be someone who is considered a cheater or someone who is considered having an affair. I know my husband ended our marriage but yet, I am still legally married. I do not know when or if he will file. My couselor (who met him a few times for MC) does not think he ever will nor do some of our family and friends. I did not want the responsibility of ending our marriage when I was willing to work on it and try again and start over. I didn't want to live with the knowledge for the rest of my life that I was the one that had to end it (even if it is just the paperwork). I was really hoping if he was the one who wants it ended, that he would take that step. Anyway, my point is, how do you move forward when you are still married? I don't know if that is really moral or okay. I feel like I should be divorced first yet I don't know that I am okay doing that either. It's just weird. Kind of feel like I'm stuck right now between being single and not really single.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
