HB, so good to hear from you. I was worried about not hearing from you. My advice, IMHO, is to take it slow. Having him move back may be good because he does need the help to escape from OW. HOWEVER, it may be too easy for him to think he can just comes and goes as he wants. I do not mean this as a punishment for him in any way, but I think he needs to know that this marriage does need work and you are not a doormat anymore. So, it is a tough call. I think even if he moves back, it may be better if you two sleep in separate rooms. I waited until mine got the test result before I slept with him again. And even then, I let him move back because he did not really ask for my opinion and I was a doormat then. Looking back, I would have done differently and asked that he cut off all contacts before coming back. HB, mind if I send you a private message?
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
