ERC - your kids are about the same age as mine. You and your wife are still living in the same house also.

From your posts i gather your wife and you are not spending much if any time together with the girls as a family. And i'm also guessing your wife is going out alone on weekends to be with OM?

How are your kids handling the new 'seperate time' with mom and dad? If its anything like my house either I have them and go somewhere, or my wife has them and takes them somewhere. Is this going okay, have you noticed any behavior changes?

thanks.