Exactly! But you know, I used to get pissy like this all the time. It wasn't really at her, just stressed, etc but I took it out on her. And I even think that is kind of ok to do...as long as the other person is strong enough to realize what is happening, accept it and not take it personally. She wasn't able to do that but I plan to. Next time I will remember this and ask her if everything else is ok. At the moment I was taking it personally.
