My dad lives in New York. I think my sister is going to help me financially to do it. Still working on the details.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Sorry I couldn't get to this earlier.... As far as what you might be able to do to work on GAL: You are a horse person, so how about looking into helping these folks: Cloud Dancers
Also, I couldn't find any specifics, but there must be a horse rescue organization somewhere in the area.
Right now it seems to me that you should support your family and let them support you. The situation with your wife can take a bti of a backseat for now, call it detachment. You need to be concentrating your energy as positively as possible, and build yourself back up.
Well hopefully she can and you can get to NY to see him. Take care of yourself in this situation. Don't worry about the wife, just you , your daughter and dad.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Volunteering is not my kind of thing dry...thanks for looking though. With not enough self-esteem to make friend the last thing I want to do is put myself in a position to have to interact with a crapload of strangers.
As far as the horse rescue, I don't have boarding facilities so I don't qualify to assist them.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
quit making excuses and get out and DO something for yourself.......
You're smarter than you think you are. You're nicer than you think you are. You're a better person than you think you are so buck up and step out there - step out in faith.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Maybe putting yourself in a position to be a around a "crapload" of strangers might just be the thing you need. Need to work on that self esteem, you are much better person than you imagine, in the heart, soul, and looks, you just need to discover this.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Trust me..being with strangers is NOT the thing for me. I get super anxiety just even thinking about it.
Forget I said anything at all, just let this thread delete on its own.
I've determined there is no answer for me other than lots and lots of therapy so maybe someday I can stand to exist.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Take a deep breath. There are plenty of answers for you and all of us in here, we just have to find them. Have you found anyone around you that you can talk too besides a therapist?
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
