Thanks Mike. I was assuming that this may be the answer. I think that I will hold off on contacting his attorney. I'm about 90% sure that he didn't. He is living in denial, that would be too much reality for him. I guess I was still living in a dream world. I was hoping that he would just get the papers changed to the way that we agreed on and file, but why would he do that, he doesn't even want a D? Right now, he is living his life like he isn't married anyway, so why would he rush the D. I guess that I just need to suck it up and find an attorney to see what my options are. I have put this off long enough and this marriage is over, so I am just hurting myself at this point. I did put together the numbers and rough split that I am asking for is 62/38. I need to talk to an attorney to see if they think that the split is feasible given our situation or if I need to offer him more, so we can try and settle out of court. I think that my H may back down real quick if I take action.
