The final stretch (it seems)

[Heywyre]

Hi MP

Sorry you had to come back but obviously you are hurting. Hopefully we can help you get through the worse of it and help you make the right decisions.

I am in a sexless marriage - totally sexless.

However, as I told our ST yesterday, if it meant be being with my H and not, I would choose to stay. As much as I believe sex is a real gift between two people, the loss to me would be far greater to have a H that I had sex with, but had no other qualities I liked. After all, sex will eventually not be a major part of your R as you get older.

But I also know that H and I not having sex also leads to the problems that brought me here, therefore I know it is something that needs to be addressed. Not that it helps you any for me to vent, but you are not alone.