Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Lin,

Thanks for the reply! I did ask him to get tested again - first time he came back he baulked at having to get tested and then he gave blood and he said they test for everything and that that counted. I did not push the issue but this time I told him he needs to get tested and I think he hears how diff I sound now.

He again came to me before breaking it off completely with her and this bothers me. I told him I am not a sure thing and that he needs to take the risk and really try to work at it with me - to take that leap of faith that we can get through this. I told him I cannot have secrets or lies - we need total honesty.

So how fast is too fast to have him move back home?? Part of him seems to want to escape her attempts to get at him - which would be much easier at his own apt. Why can't they (WAS's) be strong enough to end it for real...?

I will try and just take this day by day and not expect too much too soon. This is going to be another fun roller coaster ride

HB