I need some advice. I’m reading DR and from everything I can see, I really need to back off, be nice and affirming but it is looking like 180 and Last Resort are going to have to begin. She is making a B line to the mediation and lawyers as fast as possible.
So here it is she isn’t wearing her wedding ring. I haven’t mentioned a thing about it nor will I. My question is with technique, in GAL, 180 and the Last Resort should I be wearing my ring? Do I want to appear detached on the whole we are still married thing and I don’t want people to mistake me for a married person? Or should I continue to try and be the rock she can grab too and no matter how bad things get, I’m wearing mine because I made the commitment?
Also, I’ve never been a consistent wearer, due to activities, and it has never been an issue. So if I am wearing it one day to the next she wouldn’t think anything unless it was consistent.
I guess it really comes down to, while I’m GAL, doing a 180 and possible Last Resort which message do I send, “I’m here” or “Ya whatever babe?”
