Madonna/Whore Complex - Part 6

[Heywyre]

GEL - Yes, he is a real gem and we are truly blessed to have found him - fate?

LFL - I know it will be a very long journey for the both of us but H seems determined to not only seek out the cause but, more importantly, to know how to not go back there. THAT is something he wants to be able to master and, I will give him credit for one thing, when he puts his mind to something there is no stopping him. If he says he will do it, he will. The only thing holding him back right now is the financial end of things. We have already spent a vast amount of money on counseling and I think he feels guilty if we spend any more. I told him there is nothing more important than your health - both physical AND mental. He then said "yes, but there are limits and I will decide when I feel enough is enough". Normally, in the past I think I would have let that slide but yesterday I didn't and answered him with "yes, that might be true but this doesn't involve only you, this is about US and I should have a say in that decision also. If it means we don't pay off the house as quickly as we would like, so be it. If it means we have to wait for the Jeep to have another part, so be it. If it means not buying something we "want", so be it. This is something that involves the rest of our lives and is important." H agreed whole-heartedly and the subject was dropped.