Feeling Guilty

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Hi T2SP (what's that mean anyway?)
I don't remember how I found your thread, maybe you posted on one of mine, but it sounds like our sitchs may share a lot of similarities. You seem to be further into this than I am though. Maybe you can give me some pointers?

I have felt guilty complaining too. My sitch, quickly, is, she left, she came back, she took a job out of state, we are friends, she will have my daughter with her, I will have my son with me. The general plan is that when my son finishes H.S. we'll all move to her state - if she wants me (and if I want her). We get along really well. She won't say ILY, she sleeps in a separate room. We will be separated, though not legally.

It's hard (although I know many have it worse) to 'just be friends'. You've kept this up for 5 years? Is it getting easier? What's your philosophy, what's your plan? Do you try to predict a future, or are you taking it as it comes?

Thanks,