Love, what is it, is it real, does it matter?

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saffie,
That's a big part of what happened in my sitch. My W's first love form H.S. found her via the internet. They started emailing, then calling, then she left and went to him. I think it is tougher when there is a childhood sweetheart in the picture.

Oddly enough, a college girlfriend just recently found me on the internet and we have started talking. I've adviced her to tell her husband, and I have told my W. I admit though, I could really be infatuated with her if I don't watch myself. She was my first love and heartbreak.

OK, writing this, I can see I need to NOT talk to this girl at all - at least until and if my problems with my W are better.

so saffie, how did the childhood sweetheart fit into your sitch?

My W has over the years said that she and I were destined for each other, and our 'past' lifes intertwined. I bet she felt her real 'soulmate' was this OM, and that she was mistaken about me. It must have hurt her badly to leave him and come back to me (although she is only partially back).

Love stinks. Wish I had some. ;-)