Divorce is not temporary. Even if we do reconcile and I have my doubts, this separation has already done damage to my kids that he does not see. They are nervous and tense, even though the house is more calm and "happy". They both have to sleep in my bed and they have had no play dayes with their friends because afterschool time is reserved for catch up time with Daddy. My best friend told me me her teen D17 never had a best friend because all of her weekends and vacations were scheduled visiting time with her father so she felt guilty getting close to anyone besides her Dad.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
