Olive,

It did feel great to be on vacation. It gave me a chance to remove myself from my sitch and still realize that I am a friendly, beautiful woman who has a lot to offer. I can still be a great person without my H and life does go on, it just isn't the life that I planned.

Yeah, it's disappointing that our H's find women like this, and then leave us for them. I think that my H wanted someone that was inferior to him, so he could look great. OW is inferior to him and a b$tch. Sounds like a real winner, huh? She won't be through with him until she completely destroys his life. She's destroying my life with my H, but she is not going to destroy my life. I'm a better person than that.

Does anyone know if I can call his attorney to get the status of the D papers? First of all, is it allowed and second, is it a bad idea? Thanks!