thanks for the input guys i really need the support now so i don't screw this up. very positive progress was made and i need to stay upbeat about it. the fact that she would even admit to being confused is earth shattering for her. if she has just shown it then she has probably been feeling it for quite sometime.
catfan, i have to send the sep. papers. i am trying to buy more property and open up another business and can't risk having her be able to be a part of it although she says that is not her intention. patience is the key. i just want to call her right now but she needs to as jazz says Drive.
789 your right i have to appreciate what has happened, before this i would have been thrilled to know i had a day like that on the horizon.
ian, thanks buddy how was the trip? i also believe friendship is the key. when she showed the emotion the other day and we kissed i just wanted to stay on that path but i need to take a step back as well. i need her to know that i am not sure if i can commit to us either.(which is the truth, i have some serious doubts as well) your advice has been great and listening to it has def. helped my cause. the staying dark was huge, she said she has been wanting to talk for a while, i guess talking to family and friends was her way of testing the waters to see if it was ok. its funny every time i say i need to talk it sends her into a emotion mess, she doesn't want a divorce, that is obvious i think it is just a matter of her getting comfortable enough with herself to take that chance.
