I think my main problem is doing things for others including her makes me happy. I'M a PISCES. So that's what I do I take care of things. I have done a 180 on allot of things. I TRY not to take things personal. I think that is a problem My W has also. One 180 I need to work on is I try not to rock the boat. But I guess sometimes a little turbulence makes for excitement. I know Part of the problems in the past is I didn't push back and gave up too soon on some things. The frustrating thing with my sitch is my W has never mentioned Divorce. She has mentioned she wants to be live like "Room Mates" This was 3 mon/ ago. So she has not left but the door is closed. I KNOW if she would only open it up and let me in we could work through this. I do admit the door was completely closed a few months back. She opened it up a little to go play pool that night. She was there with me but distant. Then when she went to dinner with me she opened the door again. I asked for dinner and dancing, She said how about just dinner. THEN after dinner (without me saying or asking anything) she wanted to stay out a little bit longer. I look at it as I asked for a 10 she said how about a 5 and then gave me a 7. We are making baby steps. Being an emotional kind of guy I take things too personally. For instance she did not get me a Fathers day card. OK she has not always gotten me one. She looks at it as I am not her father. That's fine that's her feelings. I being more emotional get her a mother’s day card. I do this because she is the mother of my children. Neither one of us is right nor wrong is it just the way we look at things. BUT NO I have to take it personal. Ok thanks for making me look back and see we are making progress. Going W D Tuesday to buy watch for Anv.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
