Quick update, heard or seen nothing of xh, can't say I want to at this time. This is about the luck I have in life, last weekend me and my girl friends all went to spain for the weekend, there are fella's out there gagging for it and I had to wonder to myself how many of them are actually married or in relationship's back home, but the luck of it was the one I pulled actually admitted he was in a midlife crisis, one of my freinds knew him from a long time ago and she commented on how he had changed, how he had got all the piercing's and he actually said "yes I know I am in a mid-life crisis, and the awful thing is I just can't get myself out of it" to that I said well thanks but I think I can do without you in my life at the present time, so I didn't hang around to hear anymore, but found it strange that although to us this man appeared normal and sociable he actually knew he was going through this.