I was just thinking of something else she said tonight. She says things similar to this all the time.
She said I always blame her for our marriage going bad and I take no responsibility. I've taken my share of the responsibility several times. I told her I know I wasn't perfect and I made plenty of mistakes that contributed to the downfall of our marriage. Her response - "I don't believe you."
I mean, what can I say to that? If she doesn't believe what I say then what's the point?
Just agree with her, put it on her shoulders to figure out. At some point she will have to come to the realization that it takes two of you and neither of you can take all the blame if it ends in D, nor can you both take all the credit if you two can work it out.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07