I think you need to figure out what that nagging voice is all about, make sure you are clear in what you want before you do something you regret. Remember don't believe anything they say, especially if they are upset or angry at the time. You also need to try not to have D8 involved when it comes to you and wife. I have a S8, who asks me questions also, I always tell him I don't know or that mom and dad are just working on things, even on the bad days. You don't want her going up and down with emotions even if you and or wife are, they need to be protected from this the best you can.
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