Time for the big date. Confirmed location and time at her favorite restaurant and have gone over my notes. Will be positive and "act as if" things will go well but have this feeling xw is preparing a plan of her own. Either way, will not be in limbo afterwards which is very important. Certainly not looking for any sort of commitment or have any expectations, just want to get rid of the what ifs and if possible to not sound too sensitive, to get some closure if it goes in that direction.
Planning to start things off light like any other date but eventually will get into the heavy issues. By then we should have a good raport established and can talk open and honestly.
