Absolutely, stay your kind, nice self, but protect yourself from his foolishness, financially. Make sure your finances are completely separate from his, and that you are not liable for any debts incurred by him .... ASAP! No point in being a doormat. Nice can be assertive too.
Glad you had a relaxing break, and that you got a chance to decide what you want for your life. Good that you can take control.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim