HW, just checking the SSM forum before going to bed.
Your ST sessions are informative reading. To see the process as it unfolds, is very educational and enlightening.
H had told me he didn't think it would bother me because I was so strong and I could handle it. That is something I would not have expected a guy to say.
He asked if I was angry about the A, I said "no" that I had got over the anger and dealt with it, Does one really get over it? I can imagine getting past most of the anger so you function at a higher level.
I am learning about how people function in and through difficult situations. Each person’s situation is a little different as are the people.
I told him I wasn't as strong as he thought I was and that it hurt me very deeply that he would turn to someone else because he thought they needed help, when here I was at home, needing him just as much, if not more, and yet he turned his back on me to comfort someone else, I have to see if am guilt of a little of that behavior when I work on customers printers. I think BB sees other people come before her. But that is the way I earn a paycheck.
I said "is there anymore" and he said "yes, there's a lot more". ST asked what it was and he said "he couldn't say it because it hurt too much" Oh, the many, many layers of emotions and fears people have with in them. Peeling the onion comes to mind.
He is pretty sure H is also dealing with SADD, on top of everything else.. I can relate to the SADD, I don't like the short days in the wintertime. I think mild form's of SADD is more common than many people realize.
ST seemed very anxious to get to the root of the problem and was convinced this was the key. Good to hear that HW. I am almost envious and whish one of the MC BB and I saw, was as good as your ST.
This is going to be a remarkable journey Yes it is, even on this side of the computer screen.
I see two clients the ST is working with. I see you did say I told him I wasn't as strong as he thought I was and that it hurt me very deeply that he would turn to someone else
I see progress concerning your H. I don’t want to pry too much but how do the ST sessions help you personally, separately form anything your H does or doesn’t do or say?
