bit, impatience will kill it all for the two of you so you have to very, very carefully manage your expectations here. (Pot calling the kettle black here too.)

A couple of things from a bit of experience with WAW that apparently is somewhat coming back a bit. Expect pullback after each positive move forward. Remember 2 steps forward, one step back. But it's one step further than you were before.

As for the separation papers, be really, really, really careful here. My wife probably did more harm than anything when she sprang them on me back a month or so ago. To that point we have been moving forward at a pretty good clip. I'll admit to being a mess for a couple of weeks after the first draft arrived. I think she realized how bad that was and now isn't so much in a rush to get it done. (Hopefully I am not misreading the situation here.) So if you can delay the papers a week or what ever that might be a good thing assuming you two already are working off a basic verbal agreement.

Good luck my friend! Remember Positive Mental Attitude!


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06