We have had no R talk or seperation talk since the other night. W has added a couple more items to her collection of things to take with her. Yesterday after W gets back from work I didnt go out of my way to interact with her and had a relaxing evening watching some TV , fell asleep on the couch. W is busy txt messaging on her phone and guarding it closely, even taking it to the toilet with her. I am thinking as if I could be bothered snooping! Remembering OM is supposed to be in the past , but her actions suggest otherwise. This morning ( I have a few days off ) W gets up for work and before she leaves comes and gives me a kiss goodbye and a "have a good day".
So the sitch is in limbo again.
W says shes moving out. W has a place to go. W has packed some stuff Place is empty , she can go whenever she wants. Knows that I will not stop her ,I have validated how she thinks on this matter.
One thing I wonder about is why the A is still a secret? Why not just tell me its back on?
