well, I guess you have a decision to make then. Perhaps writing down positives and negatives will do the trick to let you know which direction you should go? I don't know, I'm sure my W doesn't like me too much right now. Sounds like you just have to get direct with the guy and see where he's headed, and if it's nowhere good, let him know you're moving on. That seems to bring people back to reality if they're at all interested in keeping the relationship alive. But I don't know, I haven't been at this long enough to really know what works and what doesn't. You just keep trying things til you find something that works.
I've found what works for my W, I just don't get to do it enough and she falls back to really not liking me between meetings. I haven't heard from the Pastor in almost 3 weeks. I am truly dark. It's just me and God right now, and I shudder to think what it would be like if it was just me right now - NOT good, I'm sure.
I did find out that she is in fact on a trip - I hope she had a good time, I hope she was talking to someone positive and not another negative person...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
