Just dropping in to offer my support. You have made a tough decision moving out , your sitch is similar to mine. W has OM and is attempting to move out, doors wide open but shes not moving too fast. Detachment is the only way throught this in my opinion, Like my W and her cell phone last night she even takes it to the toilet with her. All I am thinking is I couldnt even be bothered looking to see who you have been messaging.