Wow, buddy -- this is much different than what I expected a month ago! Stubborn is a euphamism when describing your W ! In the long post from Frank a few pages ago, I completely agree with everything he said. It is time to take back your life and let her pick up the pieces of her own and reflect on her mistakes. She is playing head games, giving guilt trips, etc. She NEEDS to have the bull by the horns, and she needs to finally realize that this is a dangerous game to play. She has backed you into a corner, and has left you know choice but to fight your way out. Obviously, you must remain civil in all of this, but do so with strength and by being firm. Don't be a victim anymore -- be there for D3, GAL, and let her realize what she is letting go/leaving. Also, IMO, I take back what I said in the email about the women who have given you attention. However, I would wait until the D is final before you act on any thing regarding another woman. W will only use this against you IN HORRIBLE WAYS (I can see how bad it could be...).
GD
P.S. Check out my new thread if you would -- got a new problem that is plaguing me!
! In the long post from Frank a few pages ago, I completely agree with everything he said. It is time to take back your life and let her pick up the pieces of her own and reflect on her mistakes. She is playing head games, giving guilt trips, etc. She NEEDS to have the bull by the horns, and she needs to finally realize that this is a dangerous game to play. She has backed you into a corner, and has left you know choice but to fight your way out. Obviously, you must remain civil in all of this, but do so with strength and by being firm. Don't be a victim anymore -- be there for D3, GAL, and let her realize what she is letting go/leaving. Also, IMO, I take back what I said in the email about the women who have given you attention. However, I would wait until the D is final before you act on any thing regarding another woman. W will only use this against you IN HORRIBLE WAYS (I can see how bad it could be...).