Well, we tried MC and he was just rewriting history. It was not honest. I have been in C for 8 months and have grown a great deal. I have changed in ways I never knew I could. I have recognized things I did in our M that were wrong and contributed to its fall. I am stronger and healthier.

H has not. I stopped going to MC when I separated totally. It was going nowhere fast. He needs to work on his own issues, but is choosing to just spin. He is over the anger he had towards me. That makes things a bit more peaceful.

I'm am quickly losing all positive feelings for him. I don't respect him right now and don't really like him.

So, where does that leave me? I'm just very confused right now.

Thanks for taking the time to respond!

Hope all is well with you.


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs