OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............Pt2

[andyv]

No, I wouldn't worry about it. I have screwed up way worse.

Just sounds like she still needs her space and time to sort herself out. My W is the same. We have done nothing together in months. I stopped asking her ages ago.

I am coping alot better these days. It does get easier. I find that I am too busy with my own life and DD these days, that I don't have time to even think about my sitch. So even if my W wanted to catch up with me, I don't think I could fit her in my schedule

I find that W is so polite and pleasant towards me these days since I backed off completely. It is as if we were dating (the last time she was this nice). I don't know how far the divorce papers are off, or what she is planning, but it is alot nicer to have her in this mood.

Just keep GALing and keep yourself fit and happy. If you still want her back, then patience is the key. The less you worry about things the easier it will become. You have to trust me on this, as I have gone through the same scenerio as you, and I am happier now regardless of what the outcome may be. The quicker you detach fully, the better it will be for you, as hard as it may be.