Why do these things happen V

[mkultra]

I do not do anything to track what my wife is doing or spending. I only know the cell phone, she does not have a home phone, because it comes to me and I pay it. Yes I have cheated and looked at it. The only people she calls is her parents, rarely, pizza places, rarely again, and me, more than the other 2.

My W swtiched her cellphone to her own plan, REMEMBER?????

I've always watched the bank balances on-line, it's not a new behavior and not snooping. It's just a habit I have to see the numbers in there.

I just had the cell phone drama this weekend. i figured even though he wanted to kick me off of his plan it would be a good idea to get my own phone. Sometimes I feel like this separation is half leaving and half being kicked out simultaneously. I told my mother to not give my H my new cell phone number. I said he could reach me at home. Under no circumstance do I want to communicate with him on the cell. It is so painful that he never answers my calls or never returns my voicemails. This way I know he cannot reach me so I will not be let down. Plus, I will not feel tempted to call him randomly because of caller ID. I will have freedom from that drama.