i have to stay strong and patient but i tell you it is hard right now.
Took stones on your part for taking action. She will respect you for this. When our spouses are away from us, they are a mess, low self-esteem and all. We make it worse when we don't stand up for ourselves and show them that we are strong and that we DON'T NEED them. Give it a little bit of time and keep being friendly towards your W. Don't explain to her why you did what you did. Create some mystery and tell her that you are working on some things and leave it at that.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
