thanks jr

well i guess i am back for a while. i need to stay patient. i was ready to throw in the towell and she has thrown a wrinkle into it.

she is very confused which i guess is a step up from before bc she never would have admitted to being confused. before it was i am 1000 percent sure that i don't want to be with him. so anyway we talked yesterday i had to intiate the call again i def. back slid a little by wanting answers out of her. she said she doesn't know she is confused. well so am i, not about how i feel about her but what is best for me.
she did make the comment that she doesn't know if there was a connection between us. i find that to be complete bs heck it seemed like there was a connection when she was kissing me.

so we left that we would go out on occasion and test the waters, no expectation, if something happens it happens. i am a little confused about the events of the past couple of days. is it normal for them to back off once they show you so much? i need help to not screw this up. anyone with great advice i would love to hear it.