It is finally out, he wants a D

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Yesterday was an ok day as he didn't push issues. Today was another story. Annoyed at his cell usage. Ongoing issue. He jumped for it today and as always ran outside to talk. So to annoy him I followed him. Heard business like talk again and him making an appt at 6. Then shortly thereafter he took a shower and actually answered the cell while inthe shower! Now to digress, this is his 3rd cell since Feb as the last two were water damaged for different reasons-a replacement cost us $120! So now he's wet showering on the phone? I flipped out. He said of all the things I have to worry about I pick that. I said this is an old topic and besides it is related. I said I was tired of it being on when he was home and of him always rushing to it and then talking outside like everything is a secret. He can NEVER talk on it in the house. Usually this is a sign of a big fight. It is usually a subject I cannot even bring up, but who cares now right? Funny thing is he didn't even argue. This is his new thing, lay back, etc. He argues about nothing. I told him he wasn't even him anymore and he didn't understand, but I do. I asked people in my group if I could put stipulations in our divorce, when and if, that he cannot be on his cell when he is spending time with the kids. He'll talk on one call for 70+ minutes at a time. That's nuts.

He said the 6pm was a woman cking his credit for his rental house. I said you mean "our" credit. Says he is trying for a 4 bedroom local house. He will pay 50% and have 2 bedrooms. One will be for D7 and the other for him and S11 when over. I said I didn't know if that was legal and he got annoyed, said if I wanted to go that route. I said what good would that do me? Really, what good?

One other thing, when he was confronting me again on Fri I asked if he had scheduled his medical procedure and he said no. That's another thing I want to be sure he does before summer is out. He said he was concentrating on things he felt he needed to do. I said oh, and you don't need this? Only been putting it off for like 2 yrs now. I told him I would not remove him from my medical insurance until it was done.