The family date in a matter of less than one hour went from fantastic to see ya later. She called her mother while we were here and mother in about 1 minutes, told her that she was breaking a committment and that at this time she was not welcome to call and come by. That I was standing up for the right thing, and that if she kept this up, I would find someone else and my priorities would shift. Hang up.
So she comes in and tells me this, I say nothing but that is sad, and I'm sure you two will be close again soon. Well the lashing starts, are you going to find a family, you probably have a girl in mind, blah, blah, blah. Finally, I just stop her: HERE IT IS! I am that stupid.
I told her, sweety I made a committment to this M and our S. I will stand for those, but after you file for divorce and time passes I will have new priorities and new committments, and I will stand for those. I don't take my promises lightly, but if we divorce I can no longer stand for you.
Well that did it, day over, pack up and they are gone. Scary thing is, the MIL is trying to call me. I let it go to VM, but she is a very determined women. I will not be surprised if she is at my doorstep one day after work this week.
