Well I got through the intro and step one last night. So far a lot of insight. I did a quick read through of the first paragraphs of each chapter and the conclusions, also hit some of the highlights, just to make sure I didn't do anything I shouldn't before today.
She is hear now, outside talking to the SIL. Our "Family Date" is going well, she tried to talk about us and I didn't have a lot to say, but she has calmed a lot. She shifted out of the we need attorney's mode and said mediation would be better.
The coffee seems to say a lot so I had her drink here when she arrived and she said thanks. I gave her the card and the flowers and she said it was sweet and I got a hug! She then asked if she could take a bath and I just have happened to stock the extra bathroom with all a women needs, bubble bath, salts, etc... She then asked if she could nap in our bed and I said no problem. I took a nap on the couch and she wants to do something this evening.
So her actions are defienetly saying one thing, but her words are another. All I can gleem from it is what I have learned about myself in this and that is that words mean #$%^! and actions count.
I'm going to try and get through DR for the first run in a few days, I have to, we have too much close interaction and I can't drop the ball.
