Whilst there are a lot of positives, I really am tiring of it all and am questioning how long I am willing to live in limbo. It seems that I am one of the few with a WAW who is a stay at home mom. This means that I am the sole breadwinner and now am supporting a 3rd kid (my WAW) who has suddenly gone from being a 39 year old mom to a 40 year old teenager.
Our youngest will be in 1st grade this year and she has a university degree and could get a job tomorrow if she wanted. Instead she does nothing! Or at least nothing about changing her boring, miserable life (her words, not mine). Unless of course sitting in front of the computer, locked in her room for hours each day counts as doing something!
If you can't tell, this is starting to wear on me. Some action needs to be taken, but first I need to refocus, revisit my goals, decide what it is that I want out of this sitch and try to achieve it. Of course, our wonderful, no fault divorce laws in FL make this very interesting.
I indeed will try to get my game face back on and DB my little butt off.
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
