In need of help

[sadhearted]

Well my H made a frame out of the clear blue yesterday that had a couples name on it and then a saying that said something like when I look into your eyes I see forever in them. Very sweet. Made it really for no reason other then he claims to put it on his website. ( it was given to our neighbor for the people she had requested another frame for)

So keeping in mind there is no OW and this was HIS decision I'm a little confused. Because at this point he kinda has a cynical attitude about love and relationships. Now I'm really not trying to read into everything he does or says. But.... could this be a step in my direction? No the frame wasn't for me or us but come on who in that state of mind would willingly make something like that? So far it's not on his website and since he's left he has had no desire to mess with his website or company for that matter.

Michele talks about not missing the small steps just not sure if this is him playing mind games or trying to get a reaction out of me or if it simply was him making a frame. So far I haven't had anyone tell me it's just simply a frame. They think there's more behind it and that since it's still early in the split (almost 2 months) I just need to sit back and be patient. Which I'm doing. That right now even if he were admitting to himself he wants to come back it's too soon yet.

Any thoughts?