If I might chime in... Timing is everything, good and bad. There hasn't been much logic in dealing with raw emotions, so seperation and patience are a necessity. Lord knows I can give many examples of premature reconcilliation, even a few when I stayed away when she wanted me to pursue. These are the reasons for FAITH.
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The solution is not to cram us all back in that house and hope for the best, though. That would kill us within 3 months.
Usually does, and then you're just further away.
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As far as I myself am concerned, if my husband and I have not crossed that last bridge yet, it is probably because I still have a few more lessons to learn. I don't worry about his lessons. That's the direct result of my faith. I KNOW God is working and I do not need to see it or hear about it in order to sleep at night.
Your lessons, maybe? If they're his then he owns them. Could be a third option Amy, you might have more to teach others. Either way it's about being comfortable in our own skins.
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and consistency on my part is the key
That seems to be a key everyone should have, it can open many doors in all aspects of life.
just some thoughts
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
