I think you are both right. JR says that separation can lead to an unproductive point. That is true if both parties in the dance are still holding out for something better. I wish we ould convince our lost partners of the value of working it out as a united front under one roof. But Amy is right to be cautious and patient. In the long run, her H can look back and see how faithful she has been. She has been a steadfast and supportive wife through one of the most difficult parts of their marriage. There will come a time you will both reap the benefits of having gone through this.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."