Here's my problem with that list of things to say from Homer (which I have not read, but have). Many of those things I just don't belive, although some I do. For example, I can easily say "I did neglect you," but I don't at all believe "It was all my fault, and I have noone to blame but myself." I don't see myself saying that. The best I could do is be quiet, listen, validate, empathize.
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