Why not tell her a little bit about the camping trip and ask if she had a good weekend? Act mysterious and she will wonder if life is better back.

I agree with all the other posts - I too desperately want to say 'I miss you' (even though she is still here) and 'I love you', but I know that will not help me in the long term.

I think I'm going to start acting like a toffee M&M - hard on the outside (hide the emotion), soft and chewy on the inside (screaming emotional mess).

Thank goodnes for this site, I don't know how I would make it through the days. Just been swimming with my 2 (W away on Hen doo) - mostly fun, but not a family togetherness.


Paul

Married 16
Know 21
Kids m8, f5

Bomb: 4/07
Despair to Hope: 4/07 - ongoing

Never, ever give up

Current Sitch